tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post2809202282322448000..comments2024-03-27T08:39:39.382+01:00Comments on THE STYLING DUTCHMAN.: Rape SocietyAnnebethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comBlogger77125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-52093087444484990532012-07-27T20:31:24.071+02:002012-07-27T20:31:24.071+02:00bedankt om dit te delen. Heel knap dat je voor jez...bedankt om dit te delen. Heel knap dat je voor jezelf hebt durven opkomen, eigenlijk zouden we dat allemaal moeten doen maar jammer genoeg slagen viespeuken erin om ons mede-schuldig te doen voelen omdat we nu eenmaal zondige dragers van sex-appeal zijn. Omdat we bestaan in hun wereld. Bah. Fijn dat de politie het zo serieus nam, de wereld is net zoveel van ons als van hun en wij moeten gerespecteerd worden.Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-86466022490975532612012-07-27T18:05:16.236+02:002012-07-27T18:05:16.236+02:00Echt wel confronterend om al de reacties hier te l...Echt wel confronterend om al de reacties hier te lezen... Ik heb er nooit echt bij stilgestaan, omdat het ook allemaal zo 'gewoon' geworden is... En dat is net het probleem.. Ook het hele doofpotgedoe stoort me enorm! Toen ik 14 was ging ik elke zaterdag naar de tekenacademie. Rond 5 uur in de namiddag hadden we altijd een korte pauze en wandelden we met een groepje tot aan een klein winkeltje om iets te eten te kopen. Op de hoek van de straat woonde een gezin. De man had al wel vaker eens een opmerking gemaakt wanneer ik voorbij fietste, maar ik negeerde dit altijd gewoon. Op zo'n zaterdagnamiddag stond er opeens een garagepoort open aan de zijkant van het huis. Plots viel het me op dat die man, zich half verschuilend aan het masturberen was, terwijl hij naar ons aan het kijken was. Ik bleef een beetje perplex staan en riep naar een iets oudere man, een voorbijganger, wat er aan de hand was. Guess what? 'Wandel maar gewoon door meisjes, daar wil ik niks mee te maken hebben, laat hem maar gewoon doen' WTF?!<br />Ik heb geen seconde getwijfeld en meteen de politie opgebeld. Ondertussen had de pervert door wat er gaande was en sloot zijn poort. Binnen de 5 min stond er een combi aan zijn deur & hij werd opgepakt. Later moest ik nog even langs het bureau om een verklaring af te leggen en hem te identificeren. Blijkbaar was hij niet alleen pervers maar ook nog eens dom. De garage was niet van hem en de verhuurder had al vaker de indruk dat er iemand in de garage kwam, dus hij had er stand gestrooid. De kerel zijn voetafdrukken stonden daar dus in.<br />Een lang verhaal, maar toen ik mijn ouders belde vanuit het politiestation, waren ze echt oprecht trots op mij en zo voelde ik me ook. Ik ben blij dat ik tenminste één van die vetzakken het even moeilijk gemaakt heb.<br /><br />En zo heb ik nog veel andere verhalen gehoord spijtig genoeg... Elke dag ben ik dankbaar dat ik niets 'erger' heb moeten meemaken!Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-91713819268938194562011-08-12T02:30:22.049+02:002011-08-12T02:30:22.049+02:00Oh! Past u echt wel hoor! Super outfit en ja Pauli...Oh! Past u echt wel hoor! Super outfit en ja Paulien zou dat echt wel dragen :D<br><br>xxxoAnnebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-42168490095979064012011-08-12T02:30:21.889+02:002011-08-12T02:30:21.889+02:00It may not be a 100% "you" outfit, but y...It may not be a 100% "you" outfit, but you look amazing! I'd wear this right now ;) In fact I look forward to go to Portugal in a week so I can steal my sister's converse shoes hehe :)Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-2534446059405812192011-08-12T02:30:21.752+02:002011-08-12T02:30:21.752+02:00Hahaha, GIMME THAT OUTFIT! Goed geraden: ik ben er...Hahaha, GIMME THAT OUTFIT! Goed geraden: ik ben er helemaal weg van!<br>Maar ik moet zeggen dat jij er heel goed mee staat! En je weet dat ik je casual staartje zo mooi vind hé :)<br><br>Serious saturday indeed. Als ik tijd heb, ga ik die blog echt eens lezen. Maar dat ga ik nog even uitstellen want het zag er een héle brok tekst uit! :)Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-59277837806917678632011-08-12T02:30:21.496+02:002011-08-12T02:30:21.496+02:00S&M is just quite classless if you ask me, esp...S&M is just quite classless if you ask me, especially after the whole Chris Brown affaire, but S&M an sich isn't a rape society problem if you ask me. As long as people CHOOSE to play a sexual game of submission and domination, it has nothing to do with rape. No one is being forced to do anything against their will. If anything, it mostly disturbs me that with her history and her knowledge, she doesn't seem to send out a good message to the people who might be confronted with the same issues by sexualizing it. However, this probably doesn't disturb me quite as much because the lyrics are in english, which makes them more like "lalala" for people whose mothertongue isn't english instead of a real "message", unless they really stop to analyze the lyrics. A tvseries however is way more in your face because you really try to follow the narrative. Also, Rihanna's love the way you lie and S&M seem to be more about a personal story/personal preference than a society wide issue. The problem with crimeshows isn't necessarily the way the issues are being handled, but the fact that people keep being entertained by violence inflicted on women. This disturbs me, especially if I hear people who are watching tv with me jest in a way like "yeah, well, she shouldn't have gone out dressed like that anyway". Uhm, maybe the RAPIST shouldn't RAPE HER. How the fuck is the victim to blame?Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-70043592026531841732011-08-12T02:30:21.259+02:002011-08-12T02:30:21.259+02:00pretty casual look nice dress with the denim jacke...pretty casual look <br>nice dress with the denim jacketAnnebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-40961049820254310952011-08-12T02:30:21.021+02:002011-08-12T02:30:21.021+02:00you look great! i want to invest in a jean jacket ...you look great! i want to invest in a jean jacket like yours!<br><br>i just came across your blog. i think its great. i hope you will come visit mine and maybe we can follow eachother!<br><br>www.wotsworthwhile.blogspot.comAnnebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-6919317628813615972011-08-12T02:30:20.632+02:002011-08-12T02:30:20.632+02:00you look so chic and chill! i love your outfit :)h...you look so chic and chill! i love your outfit :)<br><br>http://sarassweetstyle.blogspot.com/Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-80197650434877053322011-08-12T02:30:20.184+02:002011-08-12T02:30:20.184+02:00Your photos are so cute! Love the dress!Your photos are so cute! Love the dress!Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-10829026951872598302011-08-12T02:30:19.973+02:002011-08-12T02:30:19.973+02:00Shows about rape being entertaining? Waaah? Anytim...Shows about rape being entertaining? Waaah? Anytime I see rape on a show it's portrayed as horrific, a crime against women, and surely not 'glorified'. Weird.Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-65007634088728292332011-08-12T02:30:19.736+02:002011-08-12T02:30:19.736+02:00...but then again I don't really watch CSI for......but then again I don't really watch CSI for forensic type shows. Maybe don't watch them.Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-3740067104561259142011-08-12T02:30:19.219+02:002011-08-12T02:30:19.219+02:00Stephanie: the rape itself isn't shown as ente...Stephanie: the rape itself isn't shown as entertaining, but why the hell do we watch the show as entertainment then, with glossy, tantalizing flashbacks?Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-29695809398278043982011-08-12T02:30:18.987+02:002011-08-12T02:30:18.987+02:00over here there is a big sort of footy rape mental...over here there is a big sort of footy rape mentality and a lot of girls have been assaulted by football players over the years yet people always seem to say 'she probably deserved it cos she was all over him' or 'she was dressed for it' etc. so wrong. since when does that signify you can force yourself onto someone. kinda not really what you were referring to i know but it came to mind as well. anyway. you look cool as a cucumber lovely.Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-36066797287562126942011-08-12T02:30:18.371+02:002011-08-12T02:30:18.371+02:00This is a really good post. There was a huge scand...This is a really good post. There was a huge scandal where I live because a police said would wouldn't be raped as much if they didn't dress like sluts. We had a huge protest and everything. I love reading what you had to say on the issue and I agree with you.<br><br>Cute outfit btw. SUch an awesome jaket.Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-69022902065663059502011-08-12T02:30:18.031+02:002011-08-12T02:30:18.031+02:00Amaai Annebeth lookin' gooood! Maybe you shoul...Amaai Annebeth lookin' gooood! Maybe you should write your thesis about this subject next year!?<br><br>Yeah I totally understand what you are saying. Women will always be regarded as sexual objects and I think this is the reason why the entertainmentindustry and tv shows come up with stories that invole rape, sexual harassement. Because they know that television ratings will increase.<br><br>On the one hand I think it's necessary to talk about these subjects, women have to be aware of the fact that there are perverts in the world. By making a storyline about this they want to warn us to be careful.<br><br>One the other hand it shows again that men still dominate this society and the fact that women are subjected to men! It always have to be somethin' about sex, rapes and boobs. DISGUSTING!!!!<br><br>A month ago I went to a meeting of a magazine and a guy said that he wanted to see more articles about sex and nude women. The fucking perve! Everybody was laughing including other women, except me. The fact that these women found it hilarious is a big problem because it shows that they find these remarks quite normal!<br><br>BTW I forgot to see the last episode of Code 37! Who was the murderer?Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-47927938811357529602011-08-12T02:30:17.651+02:002011-08-12T02:30:17.651+02:00Supermooie outfit, is idd niet iets dat ik meteen ...Supermooie outfit, is idd niet iets dat ik meteen bij jouw stijl zou plaatsen, maar het staat je wel awesome. <br><br>Ik ga straks de link in je post doorlezen, vind het heel fijn dat je niet enkel aandacht besteed aan gewoon kledij maar ook grotere -en vele belangrijkere- topics. Go Annebeth!Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-60650633426757725412011-08-12T02:30:17.378+02:002011-08-12T02:30:17.378+02:00Ok, first about the outfit, I wanted to pick up th...Ok, first about the outfit, I wanted to pick up this jeans jacket for such a long time :) and going to do so for sure! It looks great on you, btw!<br><br>Second issue... Coming from a country where getting raped is like getting a look on the streets. It's truly horrible, many underaged girls, women and even children suffer from it. And it's still being tolerated. Living here is so much more safe, but still. Believe me, from what I've seen and experienced, throwing a remark is nothing compared to it. But NOTHING should be tolerated.<br>This issue must be talked about at schools and just be a taboo and not taken lightly at all!Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-74643123429799326722011-08-12T02:30:17.164+02:002011-08-12T02:30:17.164+02:00So, I've been following your blog for a while....So, I've been following your blog for a while. (I don't really do the "click and follow" thing. I just bookmarked your site.) And I would agree that while the outfit is cute, it's not really something would would have guessed that you would wear. The bag is adorable. (I have a canvas bag similar to that, only mine reads CANVAS: Because plastic is <i>so</i> last year. I love it. :D)<br><br>Onto a heavier subject: well, I kind of agree with Pierrot le Fou who commented above me. Everything everywhere is about sex. Someone once told me that because sex is necessary for the survival of species and it produces a sense of pleasure, using sex like we do would be equivalent to a different planet using food in the same way. I mean, if we visited that planet and saw food everywhere as a means of producing pleasure in the eyes of the population, we'd be completely weirded out.<br><br>On a side note, my rant doesn't have too much to do with the actual topic. I'm good like that.Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-21870768619869454132011-08-12T02:30:16.994+02:002011-08-12T02:30:16.994+02:00Thank you so much for posting this, Annebeth. You ...Thank you so much for posting this, Annebeth. You are so right, parents NEED to teach their children to RESPECT each other. If a girl says no, it means no. If she is resisting, then that means that you should STOP instead of forcing her. Society does put so much of the blame on women..."you shouldn't have been a tease" or "you gave him blue balls, what did you expect?" Blue balls my ass. Men need to stop thinking that "we really want it but are just acting hard to get", that is the stupidest thing ever. Grrr, sorry, I'm just venting now!!<br><br> <a href="http://eclectic-flair.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow"> Lidi @ Eclectic Flair</a>Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-27822975259471287082011-08-12T02:30:16.788+02:002011-08-12T02:30:16.788+02:00I love your outfit, you look great. Its very sad ...I love your outfit, you look great. Its very sad that people get entertainment out of sexual perversions such as seeing a woman beat or raped... I am glad that I live in a country where women have a lot of rights, but on the other hand we are still objectified and treated like play things rather than equals... its so sad.Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-85045932162659173102011-08-12T02:30:16.621+02:002011-08-12T02:30:16.621+02:00I love 90s looks, though they're not really &q...I love 90s looks, though they're not really "me" either.<br><br>As for the rest, I completely agree with you. I detest series that go through all the gory details of rape/violence against women, and I absolutely think they glorify it to a degree. <br><br>I can't really think of too many instances when I was younger, but I do know that they year I spent in Mexico (as an adult) absolutely reinforced what life is like in a culture where women are more explicitly degraded. I had lots of nasty exchanges with men you did everything from make sucking noises in the direction of my little sister (or me) to try to kiss me after I said I was married...I seriously considered getting a ring to give myself a bit of a break. I think we've come a long way in many countries, and we don't have to put up with anything near that level of abuse most of the time, but there still definitely is this attitude that lots of reprehensible behaviour is tolerated from me.Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-74701215893850897412011-08-12T02:30:16.317+02:002011-08-12T02:30:16.317+02:00Hehe, from men, I mean. ; )Hehe, from men, I mean. ; )Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-13119697633630131792011-08-12T02:30:16.142+02:002011-08-12T02:30:16.142+02:00Being a woman in a predominately female work envir...Being a woman in a predominately female work environment lends itself more to unwelcomed sexual remarks. I had quite a few thrown at me on Friday and it's embarrassing and we just have to ignore it and let it happen. I work at a bank too!! Which is considered to be a conservative place. I've also experience men thinking its okay to rub their crotch on me at clubs when I am turned away from them. Again, girls are expected to just shrug it off and walk away, but damn it, if I didn't want to twist his d**k and break it. I felt totally violated.Annebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1457429684812771723.post-572385687861169752011-08-12T02:30:15.930+02:002011-08-12T02:30:15.930+02:00I've taken a few ciminology courses and we hav...I've taken a few ciminology courses and we have definitely adressed the rape culture, and mean world view along with the "csi effect" it all contributes to the same thing. I worked at a hardware store for 3 years and one of the men working there was a convicted convict and would ALWAYS make lewd comments to me regarding my butt and called me "yumyum" I felt afraid to say anything and that made for such a hostile work environment. When I did complain my boss shrugged it off because she needed the worker. So ridiculous<br><br>btw. I love this outfit! Haha, after such serious comments seems a little ridiculous huh? Florals + denim are soo good together<br>xJennaDAnnebethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513425212332523848noreply@blogger.com